Improving “Confidence” with EFT & Matrix Reimprinting
- Do you feel like you’ve missed some opportunities to have love because you couldn’t muster the courage to introduce yourself?
- Do you have low self-esteem and think you’re not worthy and / or that no one is ever going to want you?
- Are you excessively nervous when you talk to people you’re attracted to?
- Is it difficult for you to relax in social settings?
- Is it hard for you to be “yourself”?
If these questions resonate with you then I’m happy to say that through EFT & Matrix Reimprinting—in a short amount of time—can help you overcome these limitations so that you can get to enjoying life more.
Confidence is “a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.” For most people, confidence doesn’t come naturally. Many fake confidence to get by. They “pretend” to have to have self-assurance over their abilities or qualities. When you “fake” confidence you don’t really believe you’re good at what you’re doing or that you possess those personal “qualities.”
The adage, “fake it till you make it” has a ring of truth. This phenomenon of first not having confidence and then somehow, through immersing yourself in the “thing”, you develop confidence, works for some things and some people. If you are able to apply yourself for hours upon hours on the skill you want to develop, then yes, at some point you do “make it” and gain confidence.
But many things in life that we want to be confident about—like ourselves and our qualities—are not something we can “immerse”ourselves in.
Some examples would be wanting to feel confident that you are a good person, that you are a lovable person, and that you deserve good things to happen to you. How do you fake that till you believe that? You can’t.
Limiting beliefs such as these stem from life lessons and repeated experiences where a person’s perception of each experience has made them conclude that they are unworthy in some way. (And it generally happens at a very young age.) Any attempt at faking confidence at one’s personal qualities is useless and in fact, this person will only continue to attract situations that perpetuate the negative self-belief.
So a boy who learns and believes he’s insignificant, will grow up experiencing situations that prove him right. He will feel that women ignore him, he is “passed-over” often in life and at work, and he may even find it difficult to talk and voice his opinions because who could possible want to hear them? Do you know what I mean?
Imagine an example where a person has a deep belief that they are unworthy. This can happen when a child grows up ignored as in situations with multiple siblings or parents that are constantly gone or maybe when there isn’t enough “mother-bonding” in the beginning of life. There are many reasons a child can come to believe “I’m unlovable”, “I’m not good enough”, and so on. As an adult, this negative belief will hinder his confidence and will likely play out where he continuously chooses romantic partners or attract situations that show him his unworthiness. From dating women who are cruel to being with ones that are overly mothering—a man will keep trying to prove is worthiness or let himself be smothered so that he feels some form of love and acceptance.
With EFT & Matrix Reimprinting, you can bypass the “faking” and bad feelings by healing the issues that have you believing the opposite of what you want.
So if you want to be confident that you’re a good person and you deserve to be loved, then you have to heal the emotional issues that have you believing that you are not worthy of such things.
What happened to you that made you lose your confidence?
If you can’t remember specifics, don’t worry, EFT can help you remember. Then, through Matrix Reimprinting, we tweak those memories — go make better the feelings of your “past self” — and get you believing more positive and empowering thoughts.
Think of your “lack of confidence” problem as a table with legs. The top part of the table represents your “lack of confidence” problem and the legs of the table are your memories—the life-experiences that taught you that you were unworthy, imperfect, unlovable, and so forth—basically, everything that makes you feel not confident. In order for you to feel more confident, you have to knock out each leg so that your “lack of confidence” table comes crash down.
Depending how deep your lack of confidence belief is and how many “life-experiences” are supporting that negative belief, you can expect to resolve your problem in a few sessions.
Email me today and start chopping legs like Paul Bunyon. Get your mojo back and attract the love you deserve.
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